[Ailist] Reframing vs denial

[Ros and Cranleigh Lee]

Hi all

As a personal coach who has touched only on the very basic principles of AI,
I am increasingly interested in their application to the individual.

I have just been discussing with a friend the role of "negative" or painful
emotions and experiences in growing us as people and to what extent we
should welcome and examine these emotions rather than overcome them or
distract our attention from them.  When does reframing a problem or a past
experience become denial?  Do these types of emotion have any place in the
context of Appreciative Living/Coaching?

Thanks
Ros Lee
www.mindyourthinking.com


“Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power
to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.”
Viktor Frankl