[Ailist] AI and a struggling marriage

Doug Hickok bizcoach at doug-hickok.com
Sun Jan 18 20:10:25 MST 2009


Gretchen and Cheri:

The actual contents of Getting the Love You Want -- and of Imago  
therapy -- are deeply from the perspective of giving to our  
relationships that which is most needed so they can thrive. The heart  
of the work is a respectful couple's dialogue process in which it is  
safe to experience the needs of "the other" and be moved, through  
affirmation and empathy with the other, to begin to meet them. Through  
the dialogue process, each partner finds out the answers to Cheri's  
questions, really hears them with mind and heart, and starts to focus  
more on giving. When we do that, we become the lovers we wish to have,  
giving to our partners what they most need, and the end result is that  
we naturally attract and receive the love and connection we yearn for  
in return.

Doug

Doug Hickok, CEO
Institute for Provocative Leadership
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