resolving vMeme clashes ... RE: [Ailist] TED

[Helen6451 at aol.com]

The South African word "ubuntu" comes to my mind as I read Cheri's  posting.  
One translation of this word/phrase is "I am because we  are"
 
Helen  Spector



In a message dated 3/16/2008 10:41:23 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time,  
msands at dccnet.com writes:

... I am guessing that part of its  message  - or at  least its mechanism - 
the way Dynamic Relatiohship works --- is that when one  person helps another 
person connect with herself in a rewarding way - then the  helper person  
connects with herself too in a rewarding way - (and the  whole thing vice versa).

As I write that the song "I Never Feel So  Given To as When You Take From Me" 
springs to my mind - I heard it on a  recording by  Marshall Rosenburg of 
NonViolent Communication fame - but I  think its the same point.  (Another line 
is "When you take from me, I  feel so given too)" (The melody is gorgeous too.)

In a Discovery  Conversation when you wonder authentically about what has 
sprung to your  partners mind - Dynamic Relationship takes a big step towards  
blooming.


I think the mysteric source of AI is its intstruction and  nurturing of 
connection and when connection happens the "Cloak of Can Do"  joins the individual 
with her spirit and with the spirit of her (or his)  helper.






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