[Ailist] Re: Connecting with Others

[Kevin Kervick]

Interesting you would say that, Joan.  I have been accused of having low 
tolerance for shadow denial in the past.  I know from where that comes in my 
own life.  AI does at times to me appear to deny shadow, although some of 
the recent posts have helped me to see the bigger balance.

Kevin


> Hi all
> So happy to see you have included Jon Haidt.  His book the "Happiness 
> Hypothesis" is a wonderful way to stretch your mind.  I would also 
> recommend "Mistakes Were Made (but not by me)" by Carol Travis and Elliot 
> Aronson.  In large part what this conversation has been for me, as I have 
> watched it unfold, is what Pam Johnson and Steve Fitzgerald have named the 
> shadow.  Steve, Chris Oliver and I have been studying this area.  I would 
> highly recommend getting in touch with Steve as this work has been 
> primarily about authenticity and how to appreciate that quality in AI.
>
> Joan Colleran Hoxsey D.Min., MSed
> Principal, Relationship Resources LLC
> Co-owner AIC
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> ---- Kevin Kervick <kervick at comcast.net> wrote:
>>
>> > Kevin, you mention scholarly inquiry--can you post references, please.
>> > I'm
>> > interested in them all, and especially any that actually offer insight
>> > into
>> > or actual means for the "how" and "with whom"--for me, the practical
>> > application is what is challenging.
>>
>> Hello Cheri:
>>
>> We think alike.  I am working on a paper at Penn which deals with the how 
>> of
>> cross-cultural reconciliation and I recently submitted a proposal for an
>> interdisciplinary fellowship which I hope will become a doctoral
>> dissertation.  I'll be glad to send the entire proposal to you.  The
>> references, which are preliminary are below:
>>
>> References
>>
>>
>>
>> Allen, R. C. (2002). Guiding Change Journeys: A Synergistic Approach to
>> Organization Transformation.  San Francisco: Jossey-Bass
>>
>>
>>
>> Bowen, M. (1978). Family Therapy in Clinical Practice. New York: Aronson
>>
>>
>>
>> Doherty, W. (1995). Soul-Searching: Why Psychotherapy Must Promote Moral
>> Responsibility. New York: Basic Books
>>
>>
>>
>> Etzioni, A. (1996) The New Golden Rule. New York: Basic Books
>>
>>
>>
>> Frank, J., (1991). Persuasion and Healing: A Comparative Study of
>> Psychotherapy. Baltimore: Johns Hopkins Press
>>
>>
>>
>> Girard, R. (1986). The Scapegoat. Baltimore: Johns Hopkins Press
>>
>>
>>
>> Gottman, J. (1994). Why Marriages Succeed or Fail. New York: Simon &
>> Schuster
>>
>>
>>
>> Haidt, J., & Graham, J. (2007). When morality opposes justice: 
>> Conservatives
>> have moral intuitions that liberals may not recognize. Social Justice
>> Research. Volume 20, Number 1 March P. 98-116
>>
>>
>>
>> Hunter, J. D. (2007). Engaging the Cultural Complexities of Our Time.
>> Institute for Advanced Studies in Culture: University of Virginia
>>
>>
>>
>> Putnam, R. (2000). Bowling Alone: The Collapse and Revival of American
>> Community. New York: Simon & Schuster
>>
>>
>>
>> Putman, R. (2006) Social Capital in a Changing America: Recent Research
>> Perspectives on the Workforce, Religion and Immigration. Keynote address 
>> at
>> the University of Notre Dame on April 2.
>>
>>
>>
>> Schnarch, D. M. (1991). Constructing the Sexual Crucible: An Integration 
>> of
>> Sexual and Marital Therapy. New York: Norton
>>
>>
>>
>> Trompenaars, F. (1998). Riding the Waves of Culture: Understanding 
>> Diversity
>> in Global Business. New York: McGraw Hill
>>
>>
>>
>> Wilson, R. (2001). The Politics of Truth and Reconciliation in South 
>> Africa:
>> Legitimizing
>>
>> The Post-Apartheid State. London: Cambridge University Press
>>
>>
>>
>> Wilson, R. (2006). Human Rights, Cultural Relativism and the Cold War in 
>> A
>> Companion to the Anthropology of Politics. Ames, IA/Blackwell-Wiley
>> Publishing
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