[Ailist] The Value of Cooperation in Achieving Success
Stephanie West Allen
stephanie at allen-nichols.com
Wed Jan 16 19:55:15 MST 2008
The Urban Monk has written a post you will not want to miss here:
http://www.urbanmonk.net/242/the-value-of-cooperation-in-achieving-
success/
Some excerpts:
[L]ife is a choir, a symphony. Imagine an ensemble that was competing
against itself; each individual was trying to outdo the other, trying
to make their voices heard over the rest. It would no longer be
singing, it would be screaming!
And yet this is the way many people go about their lives. They climb
to the top by stepping on the bodies of others; they withhold help
and information from others; they undermine the efforts of those they
see as competition.
. . .
Life is a choir
We come across someone who is in the same field as we are; how do we
see them? There is often a knee-jerk reaction – a competitor! Right
away we begin analysing them. How much have they made? What are they
doing? How old are they?
Comparison is just a waste of mental energies; it simply throws our
attention and resources on something that is of no use.
. . .
Try a little change in your mindset: the next time you look at
someone who has made it, simply celebrate their success. Why get
jealous? Their accomplishments simply mean you can get there too.
What good does jealousy do, besides clutter up your mind and lower
the quality of your work?
. . .
Truth in service
I will engage in no transaction which does not benefit all whom it
affects. Just one lesson, and yet it contains so much truth. Already,
the statement is warning against fraud and dishonesty.
But it goes deeper than that. In every transaction, you must give
them a greater use value than they’ve given you in cash value.
. . .
Much more here:
http://www.urbanmonk.net/242/the-value-of-cooperation-in-achieving-
success/
Best,
Stephanie
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Stephanie West Allen, JD
http://www.brainsonpurpose.com
http://www.idealawg.net
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